Merry Christmas Jesus
The incarnation of God into our world as human is a miracle difficult to fathom. A love so deeply held, it sacrifices all so that we, humanity, may be whole.
And it meets Leakana. “I just want you to pay for the delivery of this baby”.
Leakana when she came to Mother’s Heart was almost at full term. She was an amiable, fun loving, simple woman with a big personality. She was also a sex worker, addicted to drugs, HIV positive, and clearly stating that she did not want to change her life. Her abusive boyfriend was the father of the baby. She loved him and said she could not live without him no matter now abusive he was. She wanted Mother’s Heart to pay for her delivery and that was all. Her baby needed Antiretroviral Treatment (ART) and to be on formula instead of breast milk to prevent HIV transmission.
Leakana went into labour the day before Christmas. Mother’s Heart staff rushed to the hospital to see her. “You’ve got a choice Leakana”, they told her. “If you agree to stay in a shelter for six weeks while your baby receives consistent ART, then Mother’s Heart will pay for your delivery and provide you with formula”. Leakana cried, then reluctantly agreed. Samnang was born on Christmas day.
Leakana’s family wanted nothing to do with her. Her mum was especially angry with Leakana, because she had sold her first baby. Yet staff persevered. Trust was slow to come. After time passed, Leakana was invited to move into her mother’s home.
However, Leakana struggled to remain out of the sex industry. She ran away with her pimp partner, taking Samnang with her. Fearing for the baby’s safety Mother’s Heart tracked her down and found her high on drugs. Her partner had left her. Again staff worked to repair the relationship with her family and again Leakana ran away. This time she left her baby.
Leakana’s sister was not sure she could raise a baby who was HIV positive. An blood test at one and a half years old would confirm if he had HIV or not. The sister asked for time to make the decision.
She soon fell in love with him as if he was her own and decided she would raise him whether he was HIV positive or not. Mother’s Heart provided her with formula, clothes, and free medical care for Samnang because Mother’s Heart believes in the benefits of kinship care.
The results of Samnang’s final, conclusive test just came back. He is HIV negative! His family is so happy and rejoice that he can live a long, healthy life.
And Leakana? She has called to say that she knows her sister will be a good mum to Samnang. And we hope one day, Leakana will decide to leave what binds her and return home to a love that has sacrificed all.